San Francisco sheriff Ross Mirkarimi was arrested for domestic violence. Now the funny thing (“funny oh no!”, not “funny ha, ha”) is he wasn’t sworn in yet when the incident happened. He was elected in November, the incident happens in Dec, he gets arrested in Jan, and still San Francisco saw fit to swear him in as sheriff. Unbelievable!
Apparently Ross got into a heated argument with his wife Eliana in front of his young son and a neighbor saw Ross grab his wife and bruise her. The neighbor videotaped the incident and later had a text message conversation with the wife about the incident. The neighbor’s videotape and phone were taken as evidence by the police.
Now Sheriff Ross denies the incident, of course, saying at his swearing in “It was a private family matter.” Ah yes, those lovely “private family matters” that do so much damge physically and mentally to our families.
The victim is now saying, “I don’t have any complaint against my husband. It was taken out of context.” Indeed! And just what context is getting man-handled and bruised okay?
The charges against the sheriff are domestic violence battery, child endangerment (because the son witnessed the incident) and dissuading a witness. Hmm. I wonder which one? His wife, the neighbor, or his son?
After a hue and cry in San Francisco from the press and DV groups the sheriff was finally charged and an emergency restraining order issued to protect his wife and child.
But again, a public figure gets so much more leeway. He wasn’t charged right away and he was still sworn in as sheriff!!! And because of his position and the fear of what it might do to his livelihood, and possibly threats from her husband, the victim is once again backing down.
San Francisco Sheriff Arrested for Domestic Violence
Governor Christie Does Something Right
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Now I’m not a big fan of NJ Governor Christie but it seems everyone can do the right thing once in a while. He has signed into law a bill that makes it more difficult for repeat DV abusers to get out of jail. YAY Christie!!!
TRENTON — Legislation that imposes more stringent bail restrictions on those charged with violating domestic violence–related restraining orders has been signed into law by Gov. Chris Christie.
Proponents say the measure provides more protection for victims by making it harder for suspects to post bail and makes offenders more accountable for their actions.
The bill bars those accused of violating such orders from having the option to post 10 percent of their bail to gain their release.
Instead, they now will have to post the full amount or have a bail bond secured by real property equal to the bail amount plus $20,000.
Previously, suspects were able to gain freedom by paying as little as $50, not giving them much incentive to appear in court.
There also will now be a presumption that a defendant can only post full cash bail if they are accused of causing serious injury to a victim while a restraining order is in place.
That presumption also will apply when a defendant has previously violated a restraining order from that victim or has a previous conviction for domestic violence, removing the option of posting any type of bond in such cases.
Proponents of the bill cite statistics that show domestic violence is a growing global problem.
They want to make residents more aware of the issue and help ensure that victims know help is available.
An estimated 1.3 million women in the U.S. are victims of physical assault by a partner each year, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
And it is estimated that one in every four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime.
The governor signed the measure Thursday, about six weeks after the state Senate approved it 38-0.
The Assembly had overwhelmingly approved the bill in October 2010.
“This is a commonsense protection,” Christie said of the bill.
“Those who demonstrate a propensity to revictimize their victims will find their options for regaining their freedom limited, as well as their opportunity to reoffend. We must always put victims of domestic violence first,” the governor said.
Iron sheik and Ultimate Warrior
Great! Now Hulk hogan is comparing his ex wife to Iron Sheik and Ultimate Warrior. Hmm! Really? so it was okay to beat up on her bcuz she’s as bad as your wrestling buddies?
Hulk Hogan’s Wife victim of Domestic Violence
Another celebrity bites the dust! Back in the day Hulk Hogan was an example of the good guy. He beat up the bad guys in wrestling. Apparently he also beat up his wife. Sigh!!!!!
Protecting Pets
Finally! NJ is considering a bill that when there is a restraining order in place it extends to the pets. You may think it’s funny but many women will not leave their abuser because they know he’ll harm their pet if they do. My ex was extremely jealous of my cats and in fact he often picked on Tigger who was a meower, when he was angry at me. He would hit him and pick him up and throw him at times. I think if this bill is passed it will help women in NJ escape, because they’ll know if their abuser hurts their pet he’ll get in as much trouble as if he hurt them. Bravo NJ! Pass this bill.
Lindsay Lohan’s father arrested
Michael Lohan, Lindsay lohans father, has been arrested and charged with misdemeanor domestic violence. He was arrested Monday and charged today. One of the things that strikes me (no pun intended) is that most DV charges seem to be misdemeanors, meaning no one cares. One of the original charges that was dropped is preventing a report of victimization. Meaning Mr. Lohan didn’t want people to know what he did and tried to intimidate the witness. Typical!
Mel Gibson Enters a No Contest Plea
Mel Gibson pled no contest in a plea deal to “misdemeanor battery” of his girlfriend, Oksana Grigorieva. No contest means he can continue to assert his innocence, which he does, but he wanted to avoid the “media circus” that would have been a trial. So his punishment is 16 hours of community service at a place run by his ex-wife, 3 years probation and DV counseling.
I’m certain that the millions of women in LA are happy to know that getting punched in the face by your boyfriend or husband and getting black eyes and some teeth knocked out is only considered misdemeanor battery by the police and prosecutors there. Rest Easy Girls!!
Charlie Sheen -OMG
Charlie Sheen continues to melt down this week with ridiculous rants on TV and radio. Someone needs to pull him aside and tell him to Shut Up! He’s not helping his case.
HIs ex Brooke Mueller isn’t much better. She admits to “falling off the wagon” of drug abuse. And in the middle of all this mess are two little boys.
Doesn’t anyone of the people involved here care about the children? Every one seems to be ranting and raving and doing drugs and who’s watching out for the kids?
Get your act together people! It’s more important than your career or your image which is destroyed anyway.
Meredith Baxter Birney – Victim of DV
Meridith baxter Birney has a new book out and she talks about how her husband used to hit her. She would “stay down” so he wouldn’t hit her again. She would be completely blind-sided and didn’t even know “which hand hit her”. I’ve been there, wondering WTF happened.
Of course he denies it.
She also said she “stayed with him 20 years because she didn’t know she could leave.”
So don’t feel bad if your stuck in a “Bad Romance” and don’t know how to get out, even the rich and famous can’t figure it out sometimes.
Lawmakers Immune to the Law
What a novel twist!! Lawmakers in Arizona are immune to their own laws! Arizona State Senator, Scott Bundgaard was involved in a domestic violence dispute over the weekend and was not arrested because Arizona state law gives him immmunity from arrest while the legislature is in session. (Except for treason, felony or breach of peace, which I guess doesn’t include DV)
Police responded to an altercation on a Phoenix area highway(!) where they found the senator’s girlfriend Ashley Ballard bruised and thrown out of his car. She was arrested (!) and charged with misdemeanor felony assault for throwing his stuff out of the car and punching him (which she shouldn’t have done) on the way home from a “Dancing with the Stars” fundraiser.
So the woman, who also sported bruises on her body meaning somebody hit her, gets arrested and charged. And the man walks away without a smudge on his reputation.
Something’s wrong with this picture. Maybe Arizona should change it’s law.